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I Lost My V-Card To My Boyfriend, Then We Broke Up

Real girls share how they felt after breaking up with the guy they lost their virginity to.

“Of course I was sad that we broke up, and a part of it was because it was hard for me to imagine being that vulnerable with anyone else. I’m glad it was him I lost it to and I don’t regret it at all. It was more of the fear of having to go through the whole experience again. To be that comfortable and exposed with someone new? That’s what worries me.” –Louise, 24

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“For me, it was no big deal. It was something we both shared at that time, but has no relevance to my life now since we’re both such different people today and in different places in our lives.” –Andrea, 26

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“I lost my virginity to my third boyfriend, and he ended up cheating on me, so of course it really sucked when we broke up. For a time, I wish I saved it for someone better. But now, years after it happened, wala na lang siya ngayon.” –Pam, 26

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“It was one of the first things that I thought of after we broke up. I put so much value to my virginity because of how I was raised. But I lost it to him because I knew I was really in love, and I was convinced we'd end up being together forever.” –Cas, 22

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“After my breakup with my boyfriend I lost my virginity to, I thought I was still attached to him because I still loved him. But that mindset changed after I had sex with a new guy a few months later. I’m happy that my first time was with him, but I realized that after we broke up, it wasn’t my ex-boyfriend that I missed—it was the sex. Losing it to my ex was definitely a big deal while we were still together, but when I think about it now, it doesn’t affect me anymore because it’s in the past. I’ve moved on.” –Amanda, 25

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“I felt super sad after because I don’t think I would have lost it to him if I didn’t think we’d stay together. I didn’t regret it, but it’s a bummer that it didn’t work out with someone you trusted with something so major.” –Tin, 23

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“We didn’t break up because we wanted to, but because I was moving away. It was after we found that out, that I realized I loved him and decided that I wanted to share that with him. It made the distance unexpectedly harder though and I had a difficult time letting go, but then again he was also my first love. I don’t regret it.” –Kate, 23

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“I was angry, but before I ended up letting myself regret everything, I remembered that maybe I loved him at one point, so I learned to accept it.” - Ariel, 22

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“When we broke up, I didn't cry because I lost my virginity to him. I cried because we broke up. Period. I don't regret losing my V-card to him, because  he was my boyfriend and I loved him then. I've moved on.” –Pilar, 25

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I'm just happy that I lost it to someone who, at that time, I loved completely. I felt that it was the right time with the right person, so I have no regrets, even if we didn't last. -Camille, 24 

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