5 Stimulating Sex Positions That Are Perfect For Masturbating

Because, honestly, it's just better that way.
PHOTO: Katie Buckleitner

Straight up P-in-V sex is all kinds of amazing, but for most women it's not gonna do the trick in the orgasm-having department. What does this mean? All the better to have positions at the ready to help you take matters into your own hands. 

The Slippery Slope

Lube the hell out of your hand, top and bottom and even up your forearm. Put your hand on your vulva while he gets on top, a la missionary, but slide your legs so they're inside of his. Have him hold himself steady while you rock your hips—you're on the bottom but you're the one fucking him. (You will *both* loooove this, trust.) Your lubed hand makes it easy to rub as gently or fiercely as you want.

Come As You Are

To best recreate the way most of us touch ourselves (lying on our backs or semi-seated), sit on a study counter or dresser (taller dude) or table (shorter), and lean back on some soft pillows. Spread your legs and go to town, while he enters standing up. Not only do you get to have exactly the touch you want, it's a billion times time hotter—for both of y'all—to be able to do it while fucking so both of you can watch.

Katie: Woman is on counter or dresser, butt at edge, leaning back on a stack of pillows. Her legs are spread and she is masturbating while the man enters standing.

The Fountain Head

Get the love of a showerhead while avoiding the UTI-ness of underwater penetration by getting in an empty tub, and leaning back onto your partner's chest. Direct the detachable shower spray to your clitoris while they nuzzle your neck and cup your boobs. If you're with a vagina-having person, angle the spray towards both of you or switch back and forth. If you're with a penis-haver, try it with penetration and silicone lube. Some may also like the shower spray directed to their frenulum (the spot on the bottom of the penis where the head and the shaft meet.) And some do not—please adjust accordingly.

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The Belly Grinder

If you're into humping (AND REALLY, WHO ISN'T?!!), lie on your belly with your stimulus object positioned below (pillows, your hand, or a hapless stuffed animal—no one's judging here). For finger users, make a V with lubed fingers the sides of your clit—you'll feel each thrust in a whole new way. If that's a little too subtle for you, go ahead and fire up a strong ass vibrator and prop it down below—do what you gotta do.

The O³

If you've spent way too much time with that one sexy, sexy vibrator and you now desire both clit stimulation and a specific kind of penetration that his penis can't provide, you can have him go in portside (that's the nautical term for butt, right?). He lies on his back, you sit on his lap facing his feet and sit down on his peen, basically (tons of lube, go slow, and all that). Lean back on one arm and use the other to hold your toy. You rock up and down, he can guide your hips with his hands. (The iRock by Doc Johnson is an excellent lay, FWIW.)

Jill Hamilton writes the blog In Bed With Married Women. Follow her on Twitter.

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This article originally appeared on Cosmopolitan.com. Minor edits have been made by the Cosmo.ph editors.

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