Wanna know what BDSM (Bondage and Discipline; Dominance and Submission; Sadism and Masochism) is all about? Y'all have to watch this:
Warning: It's not as sweet and romantic as Fifty Shades Of Grey makes it out to be. In fact, in professional BDSM, the dom and the submissive aren’t even allowed to have sex!
Oh, but there are a few things which are kind of alike. Just like in Fifty Shades, the dominatrix (she's Mistress Hudsy Hawn in the clip) asks the participants for their consent before proceeding and gives them a safe word, for when things get too intense.
“BDSM is not just about pain. It can actually be very connected, emotional, and freeing,” explains Hudsy in the video.
So, is the high worth the pain? You be the judge.
Source: Buzzfeed