Men really get off on bringing you ultimate bliss. Then again, sometimes they just want to lie back, enjoy, and have you take care of everything for them. âï¿½ï¿½But they think that if they come right out and ask you to focus just on their pleasure, theyâï¿½ï¿½ll seem selfish,âï¿½ï¿½ sex therapist Carole Altman, PhD, author of Sex Talk points out. test
- âï¿½ï¿½This one girl I dated loved getting me off orally. Not only would she make moaning sounds while she was doing it, but sheâï¿½ï¿½d also look up at me to watch my reactions. If I even tried to reciprocate, sheâï¿½ï¿½d push me away until I was done. I loved that my satisfaction was so important to her.âï¿½ï¿½ - Pete, 35
- âï¿½ï¿½My ex-girlfriend was a morning person and always wanted to get it on in the AM. But I could never summon enough energy that early. So she used to rub against me until I got hard, slip a condom on me, straddle my hips, and get down to business. All I had to do was lie there.âï¿½ï¿½ - Carl, 26
- âï¿½ï¿½Donâï¿½ï¿½t get me wrong, I love making a woman come. But if Iâï¿½ï¿½m tired, I might not want to start something I know I wonâï¿½ï¿½t be able to finish. This one girl would take care of me when she knew Iâï¿½ï¿½d had a long day. Sheâï¿½ï¿½d say, âï¿½ï¿½Donâï¿½ï¿½t worry about making me come tonight.âï¿½ï¿½ Then sheâï¿½ï¿½d get on top of me and move really quickly, so Iâï¿½ï¿½d get off in about five minutes. It was such a stress relief!âï¿½ï¿½ - Alex, 32
- âï¿½ï¿½Itâï¿½ï¿½s so great when a chick gives you an out-of-the-blue hand job. Usually, I only get it as part of foreplay. So when a woman just leans over and gets to work while weâï¿½ï¿½re watching TV and it doesnâï¿½ï¿½t lead to anything elseâï¿½¦man, itâï¿½ï¿½s so hot. And Iâï¿½ï¿½m always willing to return the favor at another point.âï¿½ï¿½ - Sherwin, 28
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