For her latest vlog, Erich Gonzales had a heart-to-heart talk with her good friend Kathryn Bernardo, who’s starring with Alden Richards in Hello, Love, Goodbye, out July 31. It was quite the revealing Q&A as the two actresses talked about personal growth, relationship beliefs, and future plans.
One of the relationship questions that Erich asked Kathryn was if she’s a “submissive girlfriend” to Daniel Padilla. “No,” said Kathryn. “What’s good about our relationship is that walang dominant, walang submissive. Dapat tayong girls pinapa-feel ang pagkalalaki nila, pero ni-re-respect din niya ang decisions ko. May voice din ako. ‘Pag nandoon ako sa situation—which is very rare kasi nga iniisip niya ako—sasabihin ko, ‘I don’t like. Naiilang ako, ‘di ko gustong pumunta.’ He’ll understand. Siya din, may ganoon and I try to understand.”
Kathryn revealed that they used to have a rule that they can’t end the day without resolving fights. “Pero siyempre may mga away na… Siya kasi parang, ‘Ayusin natin.’ Ako naman, ‘Wait lang, kailangan kong huminga.’ Ayoko ng for the sake of maayos. ‘Pag ganoon, kailangan naming bigyan ng time ang isa’t isa and then pag-uusapan.”
Erich also recalled Kathryn saying that she would want to get married at 26—Kathryn is 23 now—when they attended celeb stylist Kimi Yap’s wedding last year. Does Kathryn still want to tie the knot at 26? “Maybe engaged at 26 then 27 kasal. But now, no pa. In three or four years siguro. Ayaw ko ng too late din.”
Kathryn said her dream is to have a beach wedding. “Iba rin ‘pag sa church, but since mahilig ako sa dagat, I think malaking bagay na andoon ako sa favorite place ko. Gusto ko intimate lang, mga 30 guests lang.” She joked, “So ang mga sosobra, kanya-kanya na lang o doon na lang kayo sa barko matulog.” But seriously, “gusto ko intimate lang kasi feeling ko buong buhay ko alam na ng mga tao.”
The actress also said she wants to have three kids. “Basta alam ko lang na ayaw ko ng masyadong late. Bakit ko papatagalin, ‘di ba?”
Does she see Daniel in her future? “Yes! It’s a big yes.”
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