- Make noise.
The key to getting what you want in bed is letting your partner know what excites you. Moans and groans are the ultimate affirmation...plus, guys think it's hot.
- Flaunt your curves.
Carnal confidence is sexy, so don't be afraid to work your bod. Besides, you can't focus on the good feelings if you're worrying about how you look.
- Shed some light.
Guys get off on visual stimulation, as in he wants to see everything. That's hard to do when it's dark.
Source: Lou Paget, author of The Great Lover Playbook