1. Give good ear.
Not all of his interests will fascinate you, but spend some time listening to something that's important to him. "When you engage in a topic you usually dismiss, it reconnects you," says Susan Heitler, PhD, author of The Power Of Two.
2. Speak lovingly to each other.
"After a while, you stop talking with those sweet undertones," says Edythe Denkin, PhD, author of Relationship Magic, "and sarcasm or negativity can become more common." Try using a nickname or soften your voice to inspire affection.
3. Notice something new.
Offer him a compliment you never have before: Tell him he looks cute with shaving cream on his face or how much you enjoy his chicken recipe. This builds on your initial attraction. Says Heitler: "Over time, you stop noticing the good things. Finding new ones will keep you loving him."
