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Answers To 3 Sex Questions You've Been Dying To Ask

Worry not, because Cosmo has the answers to them! Read on.

As a Cosmo girl, you always keep things creative in the sack. But, if you still have a few racy curiosities floating around inside your mischievous little mind, you’re not alone. Here’s how to take your sex life to the next level.

Q1: My guy wants me to tie him up. Exactly what do I do once he’s bound to the bed?

A: Savor this opportunity to show him what sexy means to you. “Tease him all over, so he won’t ever know where the next touch is coming from,” says Barbara Keesling, PhD, author of Men In Bed. Since he can’t escalate things to intercourse, he’ll have no choice but to fully focus on every sensation, upping the overall intensity.

Kiss down his body, spoiling sensitive areas like his nipples, ears, and neck with your mouth. Lick from his ankles to his inner thighs. Breathe against his soft (or hard) spots. And, look into his eyes to remind him that you’re in charge...and loving every second.

Q2: Help! I haven’t tried oral sex before. Fellatio 101, please!

A: For a guy, there’s nothing more spine-tingling than nuzzling his member in a woman’s warm, wet mouth. Good news to the unexperienced: It’s not as hard as you think. Dan Anderson, author of Sex Tips For Straight Women From A Gay Man, gives you the basics:

Put his member in your mouth and start gently sucking and licking. To help him “stand at attention,” make a ring around the base of the shaft with your hand. Resume licking the tip and along the length of his shaft. While keeping your mouth taut,“glide the head inside and lick the sensitive spot underneath with both the tip and the flat part of your tongue—like what you would use on an ice cream cone. Proceed down the shaft as far as you can go in one swoop.” Then, pull your mouth back up the entire length of the shaft right over the ridge of the tip. He’ll dig the sensation of your popping lips.

Continue this up-and-down motion at a sensual pace...until you’re ready to spit or swallow.

Q3: My dude wants me to talk dirty. Where do I start?

A: No need for carnal cursing—the sound of your voice telling him how hot he makes you will get the ball rolling. “To ease into talking dirty, praise him during the deed,” says Keesling. Say his name in a breathy moan, then offer a carnal compliment like “I love when you ___ my ___. Do you like it, too?” When he says (or groans) yes, then ask, “What else do you like?”

His response will reveal the words and phrases that turn him on, so you’ll know what to utter next. Plus, his positive feedback will give you confidence in your aural sex skills. If you struggle with certain terms, Keesling recommends saying them out loud when you’re solo to get used to hearing yourself say them.

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