Missionary sex may seem 'boring' to some naysayers, but it's a classic for a reason. Sometimes, it's nice to have gentle, easy sex. And there's nothing wrong or weird about that. But, there are some ways to make it a little bit different, to jazz it up if you will.
Here, guys who like the missionary position explain how the women they sleep with make it feel even better.
- "Hug me, caress as much of me as possible, pull me close, put her hands on my hips and move them with/for me, wrap her legs around me, draw me into a kiss, vocalize, anything that expresses pleasure and love really." [via]
- "Wrap their legs around me." [via]
- "I really like it when they grab the back of my head. Other than that, I just like looking at her face and seeing her enjoying herself." [via]
- "Moving her hips, caressing my back, grabbing my ass, wrapping her legs around me, general kissing, telling me dirty things, or her coming makes it great for me." [via]
- "Seriously, I like doing what I call a 'battering ram.' What happens is, she will wrap her arms around my neck, and her legs around my back. I'll push up, and be on all fours while she hangs from me. Then I let the momentum of the thrusting carry her back and forth on to me, while she's hanging there. She loves when I do it, but it can be tiring if you don't have any lower back strength." [via]
- "For me, it depends on the kind of sex we're having. Slow and heavy, lots of eye contact and kissing. Fast and exciting, (I may be weird but) clawing my back and maybe some biting is great." [via]
- "Wrap her legs around me real tight, right before I come. My soul usually leaves my body." [via]
- "Give me feedback. Let me know [if] you're enjoying it. Grab my body, my (lack of) muscles. Show me you want more." [via]
- "Drives me nuts when she reaches down and strokes her clit, and the base of my cock while I'm thrusting. I'm also a big fan of her cupping her breasts, and pulling me down to suck her nipples." [via]
- "If my wife whispers and moans in my ear, I'm done. And she knows it, too. I could be going for a while, thinking highly of myself now that I've lasted more than a couple minutes, and she'll start whispering in my ear, and... boom. There goes the dynamite." [via]
- "I love my nips played with..." [via]
- "Lose yourself. Don't think about it. Don't think about your body, or if you're doing things right, or what I might be thinking about. Don't scan me trying to figure out if I'm actually having a good time. I am. I find you irresistible. That's why we're in this situation. Wrap your legs around me lightly so I know you're into it too, but not so much that it restricts my movement too much. Every once in a while, pull me in super tight and don't let go because even as a man it feels awesome to feel wanted and lusted at like that. We're more than just penises for god's sake!" [via]
- "Grab my ass and pull me in. Nothing hotter." [via]
This article originally appeared on Cosmopolitan.com/uk. Minor edits have been made by the Cosmo.ph editors.