Dirty talk is hard. Do you describe what’s happening? Moan in a sexy voice? Sometimes in the moment, it feels awkward. But these 10 guys share their favorite things a woman has ever whispered in their ear. It might make for some good inspiration for next time you’re in bed and at a loss for words.
- “One thing that sticks out in my mind is…‘I want to hear you [orgasm].’ I’ve had women sexily whisper that they wanted me to orgasm before, and honestly, when I first heard it, I was initially taken aback. But I think it was a combination of the idea that she wanted me to orgasm so hard I was making noises with the idea that it was something she was obviously and personally very into was hot. That’s why it stuck with me.” —Luke, 28
- “She told me she wanted to lick her juices off me. This was a few years ago, but I still think about it sometimes when I’m masturbating and need to wrap things up.” —Vince, 27
- “For me, the best thing I ever heard was something like, “I can’t take another inch of you,” said with a gasp. I’m not a big guy, but I’m not a small guy either, and that was something I hadn’t heard before. It felt really good.” —Marc, 28
- “I’m generally very reserved, but not in bed. I think I’m like the male version of that whole ‘horny, repressed librarian’ stereotype. And I’m very polite and courteous, and so was this girl I was hooking up with. But the first time we did the deed, she looked me in the eyes and just said, ‘Use me.’ That was…wow.” —Matt, 28
- “I love dirty talk. I used to date this woman who would basically tell me sexy stories about things she’d want to do with me and other women. Not things she’d really want to do, but they were like...erotic fiction. She was really good at that. It was an insane turn on.” —Dave, 27
- “It really doesn’t matter what it is. I just like that sex voice girls use.” —Michael, 29
- “For me, it isn’t one particular thing, but just when they say, ‘I need something.’ — the idea that this isn’t just something they want, but they need me right now. I love that.” —Charles, 26
- “‘Fuck me harder.’ I know that probably isn’t the most shocking or unique thing to say, but it’s all I need.” —James, 29
- “Early on in my dating life, I was with this older girl who used to wrap her legs around me, and she’d tell me to fill her up when she was about to orgasm. I loved that.” —Jake, 28
- “I’m not one for real dirty talk. Alright, let me backtrack. Obviously, I’m fine with it. It’s hot. But my fiancée and I, sometimes she’ll look at me when things are slowing down, and we’re just kind of relaxing a bit before the main event, and she tells me she loves me. It feels really good in the moment.” —Craig, 30
This article originally appeared on Cosmopolitan.com. Minor edits have been made by the Cosmo.ph editors.