4 Ways To Feel Even Sexier--Solo

Who says you need a man in your life to feel sensual? Cosmo gives you DIY tips on tapping your sex goddess potential.
Ever been around a woman who oozes sexual energy and wished you could be more like that? Many women make the mistake of believing that to feel and be sexual, there needs to be a guy lighting that part of her on fire. Let's face it: we can’t all be smoking-hot Angelina Jolie with a babelicous Brad Pitt hanging on her arm. The best way to become the kind of sensual being who’s irresistibly, unapologetically in touch with her body is to access your innate sexuality on your own.

“If you give yourself license to revel in your sensuality every day, own it even, you’ll enjoy sex more and feel more in touch with your needs,” says sexologist Logan Levkoff. Just follow our strategies to maximize your mojo—even when you don’t have a guy in the picture.

1. Worship Your Bod


Being sexy isn’t about asking a question (“Am I hot?”) but making a statement (“Damn right, I’m hot”). “It’s all about attitude and enjoying your body,” says Levkoff. But in order to change your mindset, you have to practice. So after showering, slather on some body oil and take a full minute to delight in your curves. When choosing what to wear, pick items that feel good against your skin and make you feel like a sexpot.

2. Do The Sex-Kitten Pose

To send a flood of erogenous energy coursing through your body in the A.M., do the sex-kitten pose: Start on your hands and knees with your back relaxed and in a neutral position. As you inhale, arch your back fully, tilting your pelvis back and up. As you exhale, curl your pelvis under so your back is rounded. Think about drawing your breath down to your pleasure center and engulfing your body with sexual heat, says Jacquie Noelle, creator of the Better Sex Through Yoga video series. The randy result: Making this a habit will result in longer, stronger orgasms. Hello, hotter sex.

3. Sleep Sensually

Toss those ratty pj’s and splurge on slinky camisoles and soft, flirty undies to slumber in. Better yet, indulge in a luxe set of sheets and slip into bed nude. “You’re entitled to luxuriate and feel sexy in bed even if you’re alone,” says Levkoff.

Plus, sexing up your sleep routine has benefits outside the boudoir. “Sleeping nude gets you comfortable in your own skin,” says Levkoff. “When you’re used to being naked, you start to feel more at ease with your body, which makes you feel more seductive all the time.”

4. Book A Solo Sex Session

Sure, relationships come and go, but that doesn’t mean your sexual pleasure should wax and wane with them. When you get home from work, take time to recharge by sliding between soft sheets and letting your hands wander south.

“The more you indulge your sexual side, the hotter you’ll feel,” says sex therapist Elizabeth Goren, PhD. “Masturbation can lead to a more active sex life because it helps you realize that you deserve to be sexually satisfied.”
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