Smart phones are great and all, but—and I will fight you on this—the truly great tech revolution is the suction or “oral sex” vibrator. It gives you the kind of subtle, extremely-focused stimulation that you never knew you needed, like a wee little blow job for your clit. Here’s how to have a toe-curling threesome with a hot partner and one of these bbs.
The Focus Pocus
Sometimes something feels so amazing, you don't need to do much besides lying back and experiencing it. For a first outing with a clit toy, you might need nothing more than your partner holding it against your clit on the lowest setting. If you're ready to see stars and the entire galaxy and maybe transcend reality altogether, have them slowly slide a dildo inside you as well.
The Happy Doggy
Doggy is an easy position to incorporate a sucky toy into the mix. It's no prob keeping the toy out of the way, and the combo of deep penetration and clit stim create a sex synergy to take you to a whole new orgasmic level.
The Pulse Pump
Try a toy that increases intensity when you press on it and lets you feel each thrust in your clit. Angle yourself so your partner's pubic bone presses against it and you'll feel them in a new way as they move and grind against you.
The Bermuda Triangle
If you crave a different, more BDSMy kind of sucking, hit three zones at once with mechanical suckers. Your partner puts one on your nipples and clit, twisting to increase the suction. They can slide a finger toy or D inside your V, or just untwist you if you're like "Gah! [Safe word]!"
No Holes Barred
Clit suckery and a vibrating toy inside you and a partner hitting the back door? F*ck yes. Be filled and fulfilled in ways that earlier generations couldn't dream of with a combination clit-sucking/internal vibe. Lie on your side and submit to the technological sexiness while your partner goes in anally (or, they can also just watch and get off, many good options here).
This article originally appeared on Cosmopolitan.com. Minor edits have been made by the Cosmo.ph editors.